What's In A Name? What's In A Title?

Having firmly established P, Q, R as the guiding lights for my blog. I think I will start in the middle with this installment. No, really, I will start in the middle with Q -- a question. Why in the world, with all I had to chose from, would I call my blog, "My Name is Bill?" I mean I could have chosen anything. Something adventurous-sounding like, "The Sand Dog;" or maybe something romantic like...well, I can't think of a romantic moniker at the moment.

However, I eschewed all else for My Name Is Bill. Why? Well, after I discovered that "Sand Dog" was already taken (!) I began to put some real thought into my decision. For those of you reading my blog who have not set up your own blog (or maybe I was the very last person in the U.S. to get around to it) I want to give you some warning. You have to make a lot of decisions to get things started. A... L...O...T. I mean Google asked all kinds on questions: Google User Name, Blogger Display Name, Blog URL, Blog Title, Password. What started as a fun activity turned quickly into work. So I got a little serious and drew on my exposure to Community Building ala Scott Peck and decided to apply one of the group process guidelines we use in that setting: "say your name before you speak." One reason given for the application of that guideline in the group setting is this is a way of taking ownership for what is about to follow.

In this context it means I'm taking ownership of what proceeds out of the mouth of my keyboard. It's mine. It reflects where I am, maybe even who I am but certainly is not meant to obligate others, unless I'm quoting them. Plus, it is actually my name. I don't know how you feel but, for me, pseudonyms on the Internet seem to embolden disrespect if not downright viciousness. This way you can track me down!

I also hope to consistently use "I" statements as another way of taking ownership without obligating others to my passion or reflection. Now, having said all that, it feels a little like the fine print on the side of my blog box. So, stop I will. And turn my attention to "What's in a Title?"

One reason I wanted to start this blog was so I would have an outlet to begin to flesh out my next book. I think it would be helpful if I were able to have some interaction from others. But if nothing else it will give me a "place" where I can reflect on what I have to say on the subject. The working title is, "Seven Lies We Believe and Seven Truths We Don't: Cultural Touchstones in American Society." I know, it sounds like a mouthful. I first started with just the "Seven Lies...Seven Truths" part but it seemed like I needed to narrow the topic down a bit. Plus it has the possibility of morphing in any number of directions like the "Chicken Soup" or " XX For Dummies" brands (I wish!).

My book will be one of the topics I will keep coming back to with my passions, my questions, and my reflections in my blog. I already have many more than "Seven" on either side of the title's divide. Plus I've begun to see some corresponding words. That is, there are truths and lies that travel in pairs. Words like Scarcity & Abundance, Following & Leading, Safety & Danger, or Success & Failure. One of my hopes would be that my blog will give me an opportunity to narrow them down.

It will also give me an opportunity to define what I mean by some of the words in the title: Lies, Truths, We, Believe, Don't Believe.

For now, I find the topic almost approaching - though not quite there - a passion of mine. Maybe I will find that passion here. Now that could be interesting, at least for me! It would be the literary equivalent of answering the question, "If a tree falls in the forest and there is no one there to hear it, does it make a noise?" Or something like, "Which came first..." OK, this is getting out of hand. Time for me to go fix my martini.